Here are things that people do. There are things that I have experienced when dealing with people:
And what I not iced is that people do not not ice that there is life outside of their little towns. They think that their little town is the only town on the planet. No body else is any where else. They believe that they live in The Great Valley while any thing else is The Mysterious Beyond. They do not like any body that is out in The Mysterious Beyond be cause of two reasons:
1. These Minstrels disguised as sports. You compete with a not her team: The Enemy. Their fan base is supposed to be local people only. Other people in the audience, as well as the other teams, are subconsciously considered to be dangerous people be cause of the rivalry. This even happens at Universities, pitting entire "rival" states against each other.
2. What cartoons like to make the audience convinced that there is Stranger Danger. One example is the original He-Man and She-Ra, and to a lesser extent BraveStarr. They keep saying "If anybody touches you in a bad way, be sure to go to your parents, doctors, teachers, police, ministers, and rabbis" ignoring the reality that criminals know their victims and are VERY close to them and / or are in positions of authority.
And it gets even worse: These people never go out in The Mysterious Beyond. In other words they stay in The Great Valley. I did not. I left The Great Valley. I have no regrets leaving The Great Valley, but I noticed that nobody else left The Great Valley. They stayed in The Great Valley while I am exploring The Mysterious Beyond. To make matters even worse is that they do not ever want to leave for a moment nor even talk to people who left The Mysterious Beyond. Also, I have stopped talking to ANY BODY from the past and try to keep them in the past. Additionally, I avoid negative energy entirely. It is also very difficult to get to know new people.
When you leave The Great Valley into The Mysterious Beyond, there is no point in contacting any people from your past. It is best that they stay in the past. As the years go by, you all ways wonder if the people that you SHOULD have spent more time with but unfortunately did not would let you talk to them now. But there is no point in trying, especially if more time goes by. This is not "As Time Goes By". People do not reconnect after years or decades. If these people are in your past that you want kept in the past, keep them there in the past also.
If they are more recent people, communication is still very difficult. I don't think people even send greeting cards or post cards to each other. There are no Pen Pals (or "Keyboard Pals") for letters and emails. Nobody likes doing any of those things.
People like to spend their adult hood being addicted to drugs, sex, and video games (a few of many examples) instead of doing the important things they did or tried to do in school.
I have not iced that many people are born with every thing that they need. They never have to fight for their survival.
I also not iced that every body expects you to be perfect. If you make one mistake, or are in any type of imperfect situation in life, they will assume it is your fault.
I not iced that many people have had people work with them such as parents and teachers. They had some body to count on. They had some body there for them. They never live their lives doing EVERY THING by them selves. People work to get her and help each other out at least at one point in their lives.
People also have the belief that if you are by your self, you are automatically dangerous. This behaviour has more to do with the belief that people like to bully others, and thus bully any body that seems like the best victim.
I believe that the main and perhaps only reason people get to know some body is be cause they are afraid of them. They decide that if they try to talk to the unfamiliar person, perhaps it will soothe their fragile and constantly changing emotions.
I believe that people expect performance and entertainment from me. I have things to worry about. None of those things are about cheering people up.
There are other times that people will offer things that mean nothing to them. These people are not generous. Perhaps they are generous if they work in Non Profit and / or Not For Profit. But usually people expect things from you in return such as "borrowing" cash or even "borrowing" your transportation.
Every body wants help from any body. But if I need some thing, the answer is basically an automatic "NO!". They may not even say "NO!". They could say "YES!" and lie. They will do any thing to get out of helping. They will avoid you. But they won't necessarily say "NO!". Perhaps if they were honest and not misleading, they would fear it not be so easy for them to ask for favors.
When people do every thing by them selves, it takes a very long time. They could be middle aged by the time they are able to go to University. And the older people be come, the more they are judged.
I am also sick of the telephone system. There used to be names attached to telephone numbers. If they have a Caller I.D. system, every body knew who was calling. They had an Answering Machine, or at least Voice Mail. When people checked for messages, they would return the telephone calls. And if other people answered they would ask if they could write down the message. It was also not uncommon for people to ask qualified, experienced people by calling them on the telephone. Every body was professional and mature about telephones. But today, there are no names attached to telephones. People prefer to not have their names attached to their telephones. But you can't have it both ways. People are all ways wondering who the mysterious telemarketer, wrong number, or person trying to reach a person is. They are unsuccessful, be cause Telephones do not have names attached to them. Many people do not even tell you if you dialed the wrong number!!
I am also sick of people posting on various garbage Social Media platforms, as typed in the other post. Every body spends time on that garbage. They say that they are very busy people. If they are busy, they would not be posting away on Social Media!!
Also annoying is that people think they are gods on these platforms. Many people have god complexes. This is also one of the reasons why there are so many dogs. Also, dog is god spelled backwards. These people with god complexes love to have dogs be cause it makes these people think they are important. These "social" platforms also make them feel that they are important. They like to spew things they know nothing about by "sharing" (spamming) things that they know nothing about but they believe that this website agrees with how they feel at the moment. If you have even a tiny amount difference of opinion, they will want to punish you and curse you to internal dam nation. Basically these "social" platforms are BULLYING platforms.
It is possible that I have been led on; I have been misled. I believe that people act friendly, act as if there are no problems, but say nothing until a very long time after it has happened.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i-jReXfi_Sw
People do not tell you when you have done any thing wrong. They like to avoid you, say there is nothing wrong, even be friendly as if there is nothing wrong. But Be Ready For Any Thing. These people will be angry about some thing that happened a long time ago. If you have not even seen nor spoken to them in a long time (which means that nothing you do should bother them) they still get angry and confront you over some thing. Or perhaps they run and hide.
No matter what, they never tell you what they felt you did wrong to them. I am the opposite. I will tell them exactly what I think about them when needed. I do not keep secrets and I do not keep things bottled up. Obviously I do not like things bottled up be cause I am typing these posts.
